Brian ‘Pops’ Fredrick Murphy, age 73, passed away at home, with his family at his
side November 19, 2025.
Brian ‘Pops’ was born on April 21, 1952, in Sharon, Connecticut, to Charlotte and
James Murphy. As a child, he spent many hours with his siblings on his family
farm in Amenia, as well as the Camp on Twin Lakes. He loved to boat, fish, and
water-ski, all traditions that he shared with his own children, spending much
family time on the water with them.
Brian spent most of his professional life as a Corrections Officer, always
appreciating the Human Experience of the prisoners. He was keenly aware that we
all make mistakes; it’s just that some of us make bigger mistakes than others, an
attitude that extended a great respect from his colleagues, as well as the prisoners
that he guarded.
Brian also served in the Air National Guard, entering at the age of 35, and became
known as ‘the old guy’ who was in better shape than the younger ones. It was
during this time that he met his lifelong friend Chris Williams.
He was a volunteer for many years, serving as a fire fighter in Amenia Fire
Department, the Cooperstown Fire Department, and most recently the Millerton
Fire Department. He was also active in the EMS squad in Cooperstown.
Brian is survived by his son Brian James Murphy, his partner Tassha and her son
Taylor; his grandson Shamus, granddaughter Molly, and their mother Katherine;
his daughter Kim Dolan; his siblings Bob, Andy, Larry, Kathleen, Adrienne, and
Elizabeth; his former wife Nancy Kelly; several cousins, nieces, nephews; and
countless friends.
He was predeceased by both of his parents and his beloved daughter Laurel Hayes
Murphy.
A Celebration of Life will take place Saturday, December 13, 2025, at 1 p.m. at the
Millerton Fire Department, 24 Century Blvd., Millerton, NY
In lieu of flowers, please feel free to contribute to the Millerton Fire Department!
